The focus at this time is your place in your community, your connection to your neighbours, siblings and your school community. You have questions – is your knowledge still valuable in a changing world? Do you still believe in the world where knowledge and wisdom are valued and in time you can become an expert in your chosen field? What are the sacrifices necessary to continue learning? Is it worth it? Do you still believe in traditional higher education systems? Is there a way that you can take ownership of your own learning journey? You are deeply questioning your beliefs. This is all connected to your local community and your place in it versus other communities across the world. It certainly seems like there is tension everywhere. If you moved abroad would all your issues dissolve or would they can transmute and transform into other struggles. There is no doubt moving far from home/family comes with sacrifices. The grass is not always greener far away.
Do you have the knowledge you need to support yourself financially? Do you feel torn between opportunities here or abroad? If you are in a relationship do you feel supported emotionally and financially? What does your home and family situation look like? Do you have plans as a family? Do you share a value system connected to home/family? How is this connected to material stuff versus relationships? There could be some conflict in this regard – what is essential versus what is a nice to have expense? There are some financial concerns personally and jointly. How is this connected to your appetite for debt and financial gain. What is enough?
Do you want a child? What are the implications for your family? There is a short window of opportunity and you will need to take a step towards what you desire in your life.
