The focus is your relationship/partnership and shared financial resources. There is a certain amount of tension financially between personal and shared resources and how this connects to your children and or you need to have fun and engage in pleasurable pursuits personally. There are multiple demands coming from your children and family and things you want to do for yourself. It is a balancing act manging all these needs and desires. You may need to clarify what is needed versus what is wanted. It might not be possible to do everything for everyone. You will be left scattered and restless. You and your partner will need to make a few calls based on what you value and what is important for the family. Tapping into your value system, might be a better way to allocate limited resources. Perhaps your children are involved in multiple sports – it might be time to make a few choices.
What needs to change at home? You seem very connected to your local community/schools/neighbours. Your children and this connection to community is a focus. What about your connection to your siblings?
